Accepting who u are

So in life we are brought up with certain norms and we are meant to fit into one of these norms. When I was growing up it was all about growing up, getting married and having kids and buying a house and having a career.

But what happens if u don’t fit into that mould. Society has since changed so much for the better and it took me ages to finally accept who I am. Once I did though, happiness fell into my life, I lost 12kgs . I got some amazing jobs and let people into my heart which I had closed for many years. I know have wonderful friends who love me for who I am. Friends that don’t judge and I am me.

People look at me and say u have a great life. I look great, I have a good job and I’m happy but it took many years for everything to fall into place.

So at age 29 I accepted who I was and came out. Which is quite old in today’s norms. But better late then never and now life is all about the people in my life and if they are not a positive energy then they don’t stay in my life. Life now is also about having fun and not being boring.

So no matter where u are in the life cycle, have fun, don’t care what people think of you and love the people in ure life.

Seriously, live your life. If your not happy, change it. You are your own destiny.

Live, love, enjoy

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